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by Deborah Lagutaris~~~~~~December 27,
1999
LAW
AS A STRATEGY OF POWER AND DOMINATION:
WOMEN
UNDER THE GUN
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Domestic violence statistics shock and
numb the mind. Andrea Dworkin says that the problem is so huge that we cannot
bear to see it (Dworkin 1997). Some men do not give up their
"property" rights easily. Two-thirds to three-quarters of the women
who are killed by their intimate partners die while in some stage of dissolving
the relationship (Websdale 1997:207) "At least one out of every three
women worldwide has been beaten, raped, or somehow mistreated… [C]hildren of
abused women were six times more likely than other children to die before the
age of five." Despite growing awareness of these statistics, remedies
undertaken in the last thirty years, and particularly in the last decade, have
failed to make significant progress in reducing the number of women who are
abused by their male intimate partners. Moreover, woman abuse is not a
psychological pathology. Normal men injure women both emotionally and
physically in attempts to control behavior. In this paper, I argue that abuse
of women in intimate relationships is not simply a failure of male anger
control, but reinforced by the sociological and legal norms that underlie our
capitalist economic system. This argument, in one sense a continuation of the
groundbreaking 1979 work of sociologists R. Emerson Dobash and Russell Dobash,
asserts that property rights in a capitalist regime are integrated and included
into our Anglo-American value system, so that women are valued similarly with
property (Dobash and Dobash 1979.) Recent changes in law, such as the Violence
Against Women Act of 1994 (VAWA), have saved women’s lives. Strangely though,
it has saved more men’s lives, and I attempt to explain why. My general point
is that little or no progress can be made in addressing the complex issue of
domestic abuse while we continue to overlook the extent to which the social
dynamics involved in the control of women implicate law as a strategy of domination
and oppression. The principles and ideologies of modern western law, in short,
help to sustain unequal relations of power between men and women within the
legally categorized "private" domestic arena. Despite popular
rhetoric to the effect that females enjoy legal equality, it appears that we
have truly just embarked on what has proven to be a harrowing and costly
journey to ensuring rights of specific relevance to women. The key ultimately
may lie in the thoroughgoing restructure of our economic and political system.
A Glimpse of an
Abuser and His Victims—a True Story
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She was sixteen years old. She had
spent the last eight years hiding or running away when the screaming, then the
slapping or choking began. Once, she heard her mother’s body being dragged down
a flight of stairs. She witnessed continual verbal abuse, usually in the form
of drunken shouting matches. She knew that her mother "aggravated"
her stepfather, but she also knew that her real father had never hit her
mother. The stepfather told the girls’ grandmother that he would kill her if
she tried to take the girls away. As the law would not interfere in family
matters, the girls’ grandmother could do nothing to help them. The family lived
in an underworld where they often moved from house to house in the night to
avoid paying rent. He would do anything for money but work and often ran afoul
of the law. The occasional lavish, useless birthday present was repossessed.
One afternoon not long after her sixteenth Christmas she heard her mother being
strangled and went to the living room. She picked up a heavy glass ashtray,
approached her stepfather from behind and struck him on the back of the head
with the ashtray. He did not fall but the ashtray cracked in two. A trickle of
blood ran down his scalp. He turned and looked at the sixteen-year-old with
hate, but he did not strike her and she never knew why. Her mother sent her
away. Twenty years after the incident she finally understood that she had
attempted to murder another human being and she was still heartily sorry that
she had failed. To help her understand that what happened was not her fault, or
her mother’s fault, one of my goals in this paper is to review the social
reproduction of cultural norms in both Western and non-Western cultures that
allow women to be beaten, subjugated, humiliated and murdered as a matter of
course. Research by and expert testimony of psychologists and sociologists has
played a significant role in changing the laws regarding violence toward women.
Nevertheless, I suggest here that deeper analysis of the structural divisions
that perpetuate and sustain abuse in domestic arenas is necessary to end the
physical and psychological damage.
In the United States, women do not have
equal legal status with men. In 1964, the Civil Rights Act affirmed the legal
standing of minority citizens (in reality, male minority citizens). However,
the Equal Rights Amendment ratification failure illustrates that our society is
reluctant to bestow full legal and social equality on women. Female
conservatives, exemplified by Phyllis Schlafly, illustrate the internalization
of patriarchy as described by Dobash and Dobash. Schlafly played a significant
role in the defeat of the Equal Rights Amendment. Her argument sprang from the
myth that equality for women equaled sameness with men. Thus, one myth was used
in devising an ingenious argument and worked to convince enough people that
another myth, that of the "woman on a pedestal," was true. Schlafly,
an attorney who has written several books, provides an example of privileged
people arguing for rights they already have. Schlafly and others believe that
our current system provides sufficient protection for women. Perhaps sufficient
protection is provided for Phyllis Schlafly; although this is clearly not the
case for the 50% of female murder victims who are killed by their intimate
partners (Jukes 1998). Woman and girls report lifetime incidents of harassment
and molestation at a rate of 93% and 42% of women report incidents of sexual
harassment on the job (MacKinnon 1987). In other words, the world is a
dangerous place for the average woman. These figures do not indicate that the
"pedestal" protects women from anything, and indeed may be more like
a cage keeping them from pursuing alternatives to the socially reproduced
oppression they face on a daily basis. The failure of the ratification of the
Equal Rights Amendment, particularly in light of the passage of the Civil
Rights Act of 1964, points to the continuing blindness of the legal system to
the systemic discrimination from which women still suffer. MacKinnon proposed
an alternative—the woman’s rights amendment—in which the subordination of women
to men would be abolished (MacKinnon 1987).
Men in many cultures originate myths
about women to keep them subordinate. One that we use in Anglo-American society
is the story of the Garden of Eden. The legitimacy of woman’s oppression
makes violence toward her legally and socially acceptable. Social mores
change more slowly than legal statutes due to social reproduction, so we see
cultural denial of the change in the status of women while lip service is paid
to equal rights. Some say to wait, equal rights will come in due time. However,
as Dr. Martin Luther King said in Letter from Birmingham City Jail:
It is the
strangely irrational notion that there is something in the very flow of time
that will cure all ills. Actually time is neutral. It can be used either
destructively or constructively. I am coming to feel that the people of ill
will have used time much more effectively than the people of good will. We will
have to repent in this generation not merely for the vitriolic works and
actions of the bad people, but for the appalling silence of the good people
(King 1986:292)
Male standards of self-defense
grounded in American mythology are used to imprison battered women who kill
their battering partners. Although this practice has come under strong
criticism from feminist legal analysts, no substantial progress has been made
in modifying this law to reflect the reality of the intimidation a male
batterer can bring to bear because of his superior strength (Schuller and
Vidmar 1992, Gagne 1998). In a case decided in Ventura County, California, in December
of 1999, Gladis Soto was convicted of murder in the first degree for killing
her abusive spouse, in part because he was not threatening her at the precise
moment when she pulled the trigger. More details regarding this case will
appear in this paper.
If we see law as biased in favor of
the wealthy and powerful white male, then we cannot deny that women fare worse
at law than men. Shani D’Cruze, an historian, reminds us that "The entity
that (courts) and police sought to police was ‘public order’ –-in fact, until
the advent of police regulation of private motor vehicles, this substantially
meant the public social, cultural and bodily discipline of working
people." (D’Cruze 1998:13) Thus we can infer that working women are also
at a further disadvantage at law.
Regrettably, even in a current text in
Law and Society, denial of the systemic oppression of women persists. As Steven
Vago states in his textbook Law and Society, "The assumption of a
dominant androcentric homogeneous legal culture is an exaggeration. It is more
of a rhetorical than a factual contention" (Vago 1997:61).
Domestic Violence
Law and Abuse in the United States
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In Joyner v. Joyner 59 N.C. 322
(1862), Mrs. Joyner sued for divorce because, along with other major physical
and psychological abuse, her husband hit her with a horsewhip. The court held
that violence toward a wife was acceptable unless she was pregnant, or the
violence occurred in a public place. The Bible was quoted. The reason for the
violence was held to be very important. Was Mrs. Joyner disobedient, or did she
tell Mr. Joyner that he was a liar? Either of these reasons was considered
sufficient for a husband to use physical violence to correct his wife.
Justification included the fact that the husband was responsible for criminal
acts of the wife, as well as the fact that she could not hold property under
her own name. (Bonsignore, Katsh, d’Errico, Pipkin, Arons, Rifkin 1998) In
other words, the legitimacy of her oppression made violence toward her legally
and socially acceptable. State v. Black, two years later stated that:
A husband is
responsible for the acts of his wife, and he is required to govern his
household, and for that purpose the law permits him to use towards his wife
such a degree of force as is necessary to control an unruly temper and make her
behave herself; and unless some permanent injury be inflicted, or there be an
excess of violence, [t]he law will not invade the domestic forum or go behind
the curtain (Bonsignore et al 1998:10).
State v. Black is used as evidence by some scholars who view
gender inequality as a result of the public-private split in law that occurred
after industrialization. This separation caused development of gender roles and
attitudes that justified and reinforced differential treatment of males and
females: men worked outside the home while women cared for the house and
family. Ideas about male/female relationships seem remarkably resistant to
change. Now, women still care for the house and family—along with, for many,
the addition of full time work outside the home.
The effect of the industrial
revolution on male/female relationships adds more certainty to the idea that
domestic abuse in this culture is exacerbated by the capitalist paradigm as
Howard Zinn, the famous historian, wrote. He maintained that earlier societies,
although still patriarchal, were somewhat more egalitarian in nature because
property was held in common by extended families (Zinn 1995).
It appears
that societies based on private property and competition, in which monogamous
families became practical units for work and socialization, found it especially
useful to establish this special (subordinate) status for women, something akin
to a house slave in the matter of intimacy and oppression, and yet requiring
because of that intimacy, and long-term connection with children, a special
patronization, which on occasion, especially in the face of a show of strength,
could slip over into treatment as an equal. An oppression so private would turn
out hard to uproot (Zinn 1995:102).
Reinforcement of these paradigmatic
discourses occurs throughout society, in books, film and television. Louis
L’Amour, one of the most popular American authors, wrote books featuring as
protagonist the individual making his way alone against seemingly
insurmountable odds (while the "little woman" suffers alone as well)
(Wolfe, Dow, Nesteruk 1995). The bourgeois author Ayn Rand, in the
Fountainhead (Rand 1943), created a story of an individualist (some claim
sociopathic) architect who believed that bureaucracy and social justice
activists thwarted the building of his vision. While Howard Roark sulked (a
concept I will later explore) for five years because his architectural designs
were rejected, his relationship with the "heroine" Dagny Taggart was
suspended. This sort of romantic mythology is built into plots of numerous
dramatic works, reinforcing the stereotype of a long-suffering but ultimately
triumphant or sanctified woman (for example, the film Pretty Woman or
the HBO series The Sopranos, millions of romance novels). These coded
images of woman’s role continue to reproduce in popular media. Women are
commodified not only in their unpaid domestic and sexual services but also in
personal appearance. Lack of conformity to an unrealistic standard of beauty
becomes a weapon in the arsenal of degradation that many men use to control
women as well as a powerful economic engine.
The media’s
unending celebration of unattainable ideals imposes substantial personal costs.
Women pay the price in multiple currencies: money, time, energy, physical
health, and psychological well-being. Americans spend $33 billion per year on
diets, $30 billion on cosmetics, and $1.5 billion on cosmetic surgery. Between
80 and 90 percent of these consumers are women, and much of their investment is
unproductive (Rhode, D. 1997:76).
Thus, there appears to be more at
stake than simple equality under the law. If women cut back on their cosmetic
consumption, would the media begin to glorify the use of mascara for men?
The Criminal
Defines the Crime
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Catharine MacKinnon, the formidable
feminist legal scholar from the University of Minnesota, addressed the gendered
nature of the definition of rape in her 1983 work Feminism, Marxism, Method,
and the State. While other arenas of feminist theory are also relevant to
my argument, my purpose in referring to her work here is to broaden her idea to
include the means by which our legal system defines crimes related to domestic
abuse.
Male
dominance is perhaps the most pervasive and tenacious system of power in
history. [I]t is metaphorically nearly perfect. Its point of view is the
standard of point-of-viewlessness, its particularity the meaning of
universality. Its force is exercised as consent, its authority as
participation, its supremacy as the paradigm of order, its control as the
definition of legitimacy (MacKinnon 1983:639).
For MacKinnon, the experience of women
is principally defined by the devalidation of women’s experience. MacKinnon
uses the hegemonic paradigm of male dominance to maintain that men, the
perpetrators, and not women as the victims define the crime of rape. She
asks—what other crime is defined by the perpetrator? (Imagine bank robbers
using the defense that "the bank was asking for it.") The enforcement
and reform of rape laws builds on the idea that the rapist is deviant and that
society is against the violent act of rape. However, rape laws jail some men
who do more-or-less what nondeviant men do regularly. The causes of rape are
not addressed nor is the role of the state in allowing men to define and then
commit rape (MacKinnon 1983). Likewise, laws against men’s battery of women
have failed to address the conditions that produce men who systematically act
violently towards women, women who are unable to resist, and the state’s role
in perpetuating this dynamic.
Criminal
enforcement in these areas, while suggesting that rape and battery are deviant,
punishes men for expressing the images of masculinity that mean their identity,
for which they are otherwise trained, elevated, venerated, and paid (MacKinnon
1983:643).
In other words, the dominant
individualist who will brook no opposition…sounds a bit like a captain of
industry. The following section details the psychology of domestic abuse, which
lays blame at the feet of the male partner in an abusive situation. On a
personal level, that is indeed where it belongs. However, the male is
unwittingly influenced in his behavior by hegemonic beliefs percolating through
society. These beliefs assist capitalists in the pursuit of capital, distorting
life experiences and life chances for everyone. Overwhelmingly, the
Anglo-American male believes that he is a self-created individual with free
will whose rights are paramount and exceed any obligation to others in society.
The costs of these beliefs are astounding-on a personal as well as national and
supranational level.
Psychological
and Neuropsychological Theories
It is dangerous to use psychology to
define the parameters of domestic abuse. This leads to particularism,
diminishing the reasons for woman abuse to "what he did-what she did"
rather than analyzing the social reproduction of male dominance. This is an important
concept to keep in the foreground as we look to the work of two psychologists
who help us understand these forms of social reproduction. Moreover, the
Violence Against Women Act of 1994 is a result of the scholarship emerging in
both psychology and sociology—so the synergy has utility. To observe this
interaction from one psychological/sociological perspective, I now examine
theories of the neuropsychologist James W. Prescott.
Prescott contended in his 1975 study
that the deprivation of physical affection and repression of female sexuality
are principal causes of adult violence. In addition, Prescott warns against
overlooking the religious value systems that determine the morality of physical
sensory pleasure. His cross-cultural study of child-rearing practices, sexual
behaviors, and physical violence revealed the following:
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Societies that
lavished affection upon infants had low religious activity and less violence
among adults.
·
Conversely,
societies less affectionate to infants more often practiced slavery and
polygamy and feared an aggressive god.
·
Societies
punishing premarital or extramarital sex were more likely to engage in wife
purchasing, worship an authoritarian god, practice slavery, and have a high
rate of violence.
Prescott indicates that the dualism in
Judeo-Christian theology of body-soul relationships equating men with spirit
and women with body (sex, evil) has a deep and negative influence. The United
States is a sex-repressive society and statistically one of the most violent
nations in the world (Sonkin, D., D. Martin, and L.E.A. Walker 1985). Lending
further credence to Prescott’s project, 95% of Americans claim to be Christian
as opposed to 60% in Europe (Kendall 1998). The rate of criminal incarceration
in the United States in 1995, at 600 per 100,000, exceeds our closest European
contender England by nearly six times—the British rate is around 100 per
thousand. The rates of incarceration in other European countries are lower
(Currie 1999). In other words, these figures suggest that the dominant societal
structure (nuclear familial, individualistic, religious, market-oriented—in
short, capitalistic) in the United States perpetrates by its very existence the
mental state in both male and female that permits woman abuse.
The Psycho-Social Modeling of the Paradigm
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I now want to move to a psychological
theorist whose work reveals the depth of the social construction of gender and
the harm it creates. Adam Jukes, a psychoanalyst and group psychotherapist who
has studied and treated battering men for ten years, wrote two books. The
first, written in 1992, Why Men Hate Women as well as the current work Men
Who Batter Women weave together sociological and psychological theories to
arrive at certain conclusions about the social construction of gender. I regard
his book Men Who Batter Women as an important resource for many
reasons—in part because it is written by a man. Jukes can see the part of his
mind that finds traditional male attitudes towards women desirable and
comforting. His thesis moves from the particular to the general, and this
synopsis shows his progression of thought.
Sulking as a
Weapon
Jukes states that the most
common weapon the abuser uses is sulking. Often the man is actually unaware of
his destructive or ambivalent feelings toward his partner. The abuser believes
that the woman fails to see that if she would only refrain from complaining,
exhibiting anxiety, or becoming depressed that everything would be perfect. The
abuser experiences his partner’s divergence of viewpoint as reproach. A woman
cannot possibly agree with the man all the time so she lives in a psychological
prison in which she cannot express who she really is. A person in a sulk
rejects attempts by the "offender" to improve the situation. Jukes
states that a high proportion, perhaps a majority of abusers sulk frequently or
persistently for a large proportion of their adult lives (Jukes 1999:70,71).
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The concept of the sulk leads into
Jukes’ idea of encapsulated psychosis, or "the bubble," his shorthand
term. He cites Michael Balint’s description of primary love and the reaction of
a baby who is denied what Balint calls the opportunity to love in peace.
In my view,
all these processes happen within a very primitive and peculiar object
relationship, fundamentally different from those commonly observed between
adults. It is definitely a two-person relationship in which, however, only one
of the partners matter; his wishes and needs are the only ones that count and
must be attended to; the other partner, though felt to be immensely powerful,
matters only insofar as he is willing to gratify the first partner’s needs and
desires or decides to frustrate them; beyond this his personal interests,
needs, desires, wishes, etc. simply do not exist.
[I]f any
hitch, or disharmony between subject and object occurs, the reaction to it
consists of loud and vehement symptoms suggesting processes [h]ighly aggressive
and destructive in [n]ature. [O]n the other hand, if the harmony is allowed to
persist without much disturbance from outside, the reaction amounts to a
feeling of tranquil, quiet well-being which is rather inconspicuous and
difficult to observe. (Jukes 1998:107-108 from Balint)
Balint’s
description of the object—the mother or the analyst—is revealing and
instructive. She is not to have any needs, desires, or wishes of her own.
Anyone who wished to talk to women who have been abused will soon discover that
this is an all too common observation about their abusers. Indeed many women
would say that this is all too common amongst men who do not physically
abuse-that it may be one of the defining characteristics of heterosexual men. (Emphasis
mine) (Jukes 1998:108).
A second aspect of the
"bubble" features the abuser’s view of a woman as "part
object." I will explain with an everyday example. A man who sees a woman
and silently admires a nice body part—breast, legs, bottom—is relating to a
part object. He is oblivious to her whole-person status. Part relating is at
the heart of domestic abuse. As earlier noted, the time and money invested by
women in an attempt to be more attractive to men enhances the desirability of
the parts and feeds the "bubble" mentality. Mythologized aspects of
female sexuality lend themselves to popular media and advertisement to great
effect.
Let us get
closer to the heart of the matter. When a man is abusing or when the harmony
Balint described is disrupted, he sees only an object whose sole desire is to
cause him pain by frustrating his desire. This is perceived as willful and
sadistic. [S]he needs to be punished or destroyed or controlled in order to
prevent the catastrophe which the man perceives… His relation to the part
object is what holds the whole system of beliefs, attitudes and abusive
behavior together (Jukes 1998:108).
The abuser perceives himself as
spending most of his time protecting the part object against his own rage.
Thus, when the part object refuses to perform in the ideated manner, the abuser
can be triggered by simple incidents into the grossest forms of abuse. He
indicates to his victim that an incident may be imminent by using variations on
the theme— "don’t start." Many men blame their partners for
triggering abuse— i.e. she must want "it" because she knows what
"winds me up".
The following passages from Jukes
illuminate the mental state of a typical abuser.
As the
abuser acts on the perceived threat, escalating the controlling abuse to
physical means, he experiences a fracture of ego resulting from his failure to
integrate the good and bad objects and the fixation as the failure to come to
terms with the fundamental anxiety that the object he loves and needs to
survive is also the one whom he hates and wants to destroy because she is
sadistically, homicidally frustrating him. Once he is confronted with the bad
part object he is convinced (because he is in a split off part of his own
ego—the bubble—which is incapable of construing any other way) that the part is
the whole. She is all bad, all dangerous, all sadistic. He is not the
perpetrator, he is the victim. The crisis is a life-threatening one (in the
mind of the abuser) and calls for extreme measures (Jukes 1999:109).
The
essential quality of the bubble is that the man has a private mental life that
he never shares with others. We all live in a bubble to some degree, however,
"the abuser’s bubble contains values, attitudes and beliefs which are
perfectionistic, prideful, arrogant, contemptuous, frustrating, mistrustful and
objectifying of others. It covers a perception of a hostile world, fairly red
in tooth and claw, where survival, destructiveness, and competitiveness reign.
All in all there is a feeling of knowing exactly what is right and exactly what
is wrong. Within this space, the man is convinced that he is self-sufficient,
even self-created. (Emphasis mine.) In fact, the bubble is an island. From
within it the man can abuse and believe that he is helping the victim, because
"everyone wants to be perfect, don’t they?" Within the bubble he is a
black hole of rage, frustration and emptiness (Jukes 1999:111).
The
Healthy, Individualist Batterer
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This self-created individual embodies
the capitalist paradigm. As Jay Feinman, Distinguished Professor of Law at
Rutgers University, and Peter Gabel, President and professor of law at the New
College of California posit in Contract Law as Ideology, changes in
society propelled by the split into capital-owning and non-owning classes caused
the dissolution of many bonds among people that had characterized the social
relations of earlier periods (Gabel, J. and P. Feinman 1998). They echo Zinn’s
theory that capitalistic competition and individual self-interest reordered the
universe—weakening the bonds in a community. These bonds are further attenuated
by modern mobility, often leaving individuals with no extended family nearby as
a support group or to act as a check on antisocial behavior (Gabel et al 1998).
Japan’s low crime figures attest to the importance of informal community
sanctions on criminal behavior. The comments of a Japanese high school student
explain this hegemonic structure:
The Japanese
have a kind of consciousness of the shame of committing a crime. If it is
proved you commit a crime, you and even your family would never be involved in
your community. As most of the Japanese are afraid of that, they even hesitate
to confront or argue with other people. It means that it is important for them
to be a part of their communities.
Laura Nader, a legal anthropologist
from UC Berkeley, studied the Zapotec in Mexico, the inhabitants of a small
mountain village. In her film, Little Injustices: Laura Nader Looks at the
Law (1981), she contrasted the ineffectiveness of our abstract legal
environment in redressing consumer grievances to the face-to-face method of
conflict resolution used by these "primitive" mountain people. She
points out that these people have a large stake in maintaining harmonious
relationships as they live side by side for most of their lives. A corporation
that produces an inferior product has no human relationship with an unhappy
American consumer, so the level of concern evidenced by the Zapotec for
injustice does not seem to operate in our system. The Zapotec use simple
methods to facilitate conflict resolution that are effective and inexpensive,
as well as reflecting the local values of justice. This is one feature of the
operation of a customary justice system. The Zapotec system features a local
person, without formal legal training, appointed as judge, who rotates out of
the assignment every two years. This insures an even higher response to
community values. (Nader 1981)
We have been cut loose from our
customary legal environment by the monetary, political, and social forces made
mandatory by our current economic system. Constraints upon male abuse in a home
in which multiple generations lived, or in a matrilocal community, are weakened
in the nuclear family. Gabel and Feinman note the loss of communal values in
the change to a capitalistically modulated society.
Within a
short stretch of historical time, people experienced and were forced to adapt
to the appearance of the factory, the rise of the industrial city, and a
violent rupture of group life and feeling that crushed traditional forms of
moral and community identity. While part of this transformation was an attempt
to overturn the repressive aspects of a traditional, hierarchical society, it
also created that blend of aggression, paranoia and profound emotional
isolation and anguish that is known romantically as the rugged individual
(emphasis mine) (Gabel et al 1998:501).
This description of the normative
(male) individual in a capitalist society eerily and frighteningly mirrors that
of the abuser in his encapsulated psychosis, or "bubble." It also
appears as the model of the best-selling Louis L’amour characters described
earlier, or the stereotype of the astute businessman. If we agree with the
previous assertion that behavior patterns of normal males include woman
battering, then it is difficult to discount the notion that male abuse of
female partners is endemic in modern social reproduction. If we add the concept
of "the bubble" to Jukes’ belief that the resolution of the Oedipus
complex in men results in what he calls "normal contempt" that all
"healthy" men will develop toward women, the attitudinal entrenchment
becomes that much more difficult to weaken (Jukes 1999:98).
These men fail to understand that
women have an interior life separate from the socially inculcated duty to
service a man. Thus, male behaviors are not pathological. That is, they
are the acts of "normal" people. The reasons to address these range
far beyond the fair and compassionate treatment of females. The humdrum daily
reports of road rage, random murder in high school and workplace, street
violence, rape, and war the world over that we tend to accept as the way of the
world takes an immense toll on society. The resources we use to deal with the
products of male rage could better be used to improve living standards and
provide humane and empowering services. These topics exceed the scope of this
paper but we must keep them in mind when considering the damage done to women
as a gender by this dominant paradigm. Men abuse women to keep them in a
position where the male desire to receive caretaking will be most readily
served. Jukes presents a list of abusive behaviors for his patients to avoid in
their intimate relationships. Some behaviors on this list might take one by
surprise as they are thought of as normal. However, taken as a group, these
behaviors are used by a man in a concerted effort to subjugate a woman. For
some women, they represent the substance of a male-female intimate
relationship. For too many women, physical, emotional and verbal abuse by
partners is the norm. In resource after resource, similar statistics are
presented regarding domestic violence and homicide, which some call femicide.
(Currie, E. 1999, Kelly, L. and J. Radford 1999). For instance, Jukes notes the
following (Jukes 1999:18):
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Domestic violence
against women accounts for a quarter of all reported crime.
·
Almost half of
all homicides of women are killings by a partner or ex-partner.
·
Eighty-five
percent of rapists are men known to the victims.
·
The acquittal
rate in rape trials is 78%. I have addressed reasons for this in my earlier
review of Catharine MacKinnon’s work.
Neil Websdale, who performed an
in-depth analysis of domestic homicides in the state of Florida in 1994, offers
more statistics:
·
A man is almost
four times as likely to kill his wife as to be killed by her; among estranged
couples, he was more than nine times as likely to kill her as she him
(Websdale 1999:21).
·
In single
killings of women (as opposed to multiple homicide committed by the same
person), eighty-eight percent were perpetrated by male intimate partners
(Websdale 1999:79).
·
The multiagency
case files for multiple and single killings of female domestic partners reveal
that in roughly two-thirds to three-quarters of cases the parties were either
separated, estranged, or divorced at the time of the fatality (Websdale
1999:206).
Surveys taken by Jukes and other
social scientists indicate that 25% (Leibrich 1995) to 40% (Jukes 1999) of men
are willing to use violence to "correct" a domestic partner. If this
is true, then the following two statements may also be true. First, Jukes
maintains that the high percentage of men who are willing to use physical
violence means that the male batterer does not possess a mental pathology that
makes him use violence against an intimate partner. To revisit an earlier
important point, batterers are "normal" men (Jukes 1999). Second, it
follows that the same percentage of women, in order to find a partner, must
choose a potential abuser. The social construct that "there is someone for
everyone" takes on a more utilitarian meaning in light of these figures.
Even men who abuse and batter will still have an excellent chance of acquiring
a spouse or female partner. The alternative, women choosing to remain single,
would wreak havoc on birth rates and thus deplete the supply of labor, so is
also undesirable in the eyes of a capital logic. It is no small wonder that the
greater number of single women choosing to compete in the workforce and not
have children is attracting so much media attention.
The Patch—The
Violence Against Women Act of 1994
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The United States took a legislative
stand against woman abuse in 1994 with the most important law passed to date
regarding woman abuse, that I will review next. Some facts will help orient the
reader in assessing the political motivation for the creation and passage of
the Violence Against Women Act of 1994 ("VAWA").
The
first battered women’s shelter opened in Chiswick, England in 1972. Thousands
of such shelters in England and other European countries opened soon
thereafter. The reasons for battering behavior were unexamined then, but
nevertheless as the decade wore on shelters throughout the U.S., Canada, and
England were overwhelmed by people requiring assistance.
The fragmented nature of government in
the U.S., that is, each state enacting its own laws regarding domestic abuse,
allowed delays and inconsistencies that did not occur in more unified
governments. For example, offenders in one state often escaped prosecution by
crossing a state line. The efficacy of the new VAWA law was illustrated by one
horrifying example. A man beat his wife until she became unconscious. He then
put her in the trunk of the car and drove through several states for five days.
When he finally took her to the hospital, she had sustained massive brain
damage and remains in a permanent vegetative state. Pre-VAWA, he could not have
been prosecuted in the state where he finally stopped (Jasper 1996). One
further point: this crime does not appear in homicide indices.
The Violence Against Women Act of
1994, enacted as part of the Violent Crime Control and Law Enforcement Act of
1994, created national, uniform legal standards that created a stronger legal
platform with which to rein in abusers. VAWA sets forth "firm law
enforcement tactics and includes important safeguards for female victims of
domestic violence and sexual assault." (Jasper 1996:1)
The
Violence Against Women Act of 1994 places the rule of law firmly behind the
victims of domestic abuse. Over the last ten years, the trend in male
sentencing for conviction in the death of a female intimate partner has shown
an increase in duration of imprisonment, while incarceration time for females
who murder their male abusers has decreased (Jasper 1996). However, a survey of
articles in the Los Angeles Times for the months of October and November
1999 produced nine examples of felony domestic abuse including six cases of
murder, and give evidence that these instances of carnage occur all too
frequently despite legal sanctions. An example:
Friday,
October 1, 1999--Man Kills Self After Shooting Woman, Child
Mother and toddler cling to life.
She had tried to leave the boy’s father and had obtained a court order. [H]er
ex-boyfriend, Angel Vega, stepped out of the bushes onto the driveway of her
East Los Angeles home. In the past, Vega had tried to choke her. He swore he
wouldn’t let her be with another man. He threatened to kill her and himself.
This time, he didn’t say anything. He just stood in front of her, raised a gun
and fired, shooting her in the head. "Mommy, mommy!" screamed their
son, Angel Jr., throwing himself on his mother’s body. Vega headed across the
street, turned back and shot the toddler in the head [t]hen he turned the gun
on himself. He died at the scene. [Solis’] condition was listed as extremely
grave, while her son’s was listed as critical but stable. A restraining order
had been issued against Vega [w]ho had been arrested in July on charges of
spousal assault.
A View of a Woman’s
Trials; Then a View of a Woman’s Trial
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In view of the endemic and pandemic
nature of domestic abuse, it is difficult to feel confident that VAWA, although
apparently a well-written and effective law, has made the necessary inroads
into this costly and destructive behavior. For example, I attended the closing
arguments in the case of Gladis Soto, and discovered that inadequacies continue
in the legal climate regarding abused women who kill. In February of 1999, Soto
was arrested for killing her husband, Pedro Abel, and afterward cutting off his
limbs with a radial arm saw because his body was too heavy to move intact. Then
she took the remains down to the river bottom and set them afire in an attempt
to hide the evidence. She has not disputed that she did these things. Her
defense counsel used Battered Woman Syndrome as part of her defense. The news
articles in the LA Times, as well as expert testimony, point to
activities of both Soto and Abel that are strongly indicative of behaviors that
are included in diagnosis of Battered Woman Syndrome (BWS).
Battered
Woman Syndrome is listed in the World Health Organization’s International
Classification of Disease. It is accepted as well in the medical profession’s
Diagnostic and Statistics Manual of Mental Disorders as a form of
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. BWS is described as the victim’s heightened
ability to observe, assess and react to her abuser’s violence, the
psychological inability of a woman to escape when attacked or to leave the
batterer, and patterns of inconsistency. (Brommer 1997:18)
Soto and Abel have five children
together. He had often been unfaithful to her. Soto left numerous times, even
moving across country and then returning. He objected to her attendance at
community college to better herself. Still, she obtained an Associate of Arts degree
in early childhood education. Soto’s sister testified that Abel had broken
Soto’s leg once by hitting her with their car. Their eldest daughter testified
to the cruelty to which her father subjected her mother. Although the couple
had divorced, Abel still lived in the home. The night of the killing, he had
taken a few Viagra and told her he was going out to see another woman. He later
returned home and raped her, then went to sleep. The prosecution in Soto’s case
used the fact that Soto had moved across country, then returned, as a signal
that the relationship must have been relatively satisfactory or she would not
have returned. One of the signs of Battered Woman Syndrome, as earlier implied,
is returning to an abusive relationship despite successful physical
separations. This may be a result of the heightened awareness of danger from
the abuser. Many of these men tell their victims they will find them and kill
them. Often, they make good on their threats, so staying could be seen,
ironically, as a measure toward self-preservation. As earlier noted, women are
nine times more likely to be murdered while in the process of ending an abusive
relationship. The Vega-Solis case cited previously is an anecdotal example of
this statistical reality.
When attending the closing arguments
in the Abel-Soto case, I found that little has changed in the last thirty years
concerning the State’s view of women who kill their abusers despite the work of
sociologists and psychologists over this time. Legal standards of self-defense
based on two roughly equal antagonists continue to be applied to victims of
woman abuse who kill.
In the courtroom, the Milwaukee radial
arm saw that Soto used to dismember her husband sat on the prosecution’s table,
uncleaned, in a Plexiglas box. The prosecution’s case consisted partly of the
following points:
o
The assertion of
self-defense was not perfect, as Soto was not in immediate danger of losing her
life.
o
She did not make
a fresh complaint of the rape.
--The idea
that rape complaints are more likely to be truthful if filed within a given
period of time is a myth discounted by numerous researchers (Estrich 1987).
o
She did not make
numerous calls to the police when assaulted.
--Several
witnesses testified to observing the results of the beatings she received.
o
She bought the
gun four days before she killed Abel.
--She
told her sister that Abel was going to kill her.
o
The fact that
Abel has numerous liaisons with other women was used against Soto because the
prosecution asserted that she killed Abel due to his alleged "different
behavior pattern" in a current affair.
o
Any prior thought
of killing was characterized as premeditation by the prosecution. No allowance
was made for the idea that Abel committed many acts of potentially lethal violence
on Soto.
The defense attorney’s closing
argument did little to dispel the prosecution’s assertions. Although the
experts who testified stated that Soto was battered, the attorney failed to
highlight areas of Soto’s behavior that suggested Battered Woman Syndrome. His
grasp of the theories behind possible explanations of Soto’s actions was
tenuous at best, and he failed to have the reference material he cited at hand
so he could quote properly. As I left the courtroom, I felt concern regarding
the quality of her defense. However, having followed the case closely, I was
still shocked when the jury returned a verdict of guilty to murder in the first
degree because it seemed that the defense had demonstrated a clear pattern of
abuse.
Conclusion
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Stronger measures must be taken to
insure the safety of women and children against male domestic abuse. It seems
obvious that the hegemonic nature of male domination resists substantive
efforts to reduce woman abuse, in Anglo-American culture, or other cultures.
From the statistics showing the decrease in (reported) deaths due to domestic
violence over the last twenty years, we can see that interventions such as
shelters for battered women and children are saving lives as well as keeping
women out of prison and orphaning children. However, the death rate for women
has declined significantly less than that of men. In 1976, 1,357 men met their
fate at the hands of a female intimate partner, while 1,600 women similarly
died. In 1997, only 430 men died in acts of intimate violence, while 1,174
women died. The percentage of decrease for male deaths was 68%, while the
percentage of decrease for females was a mere 26%. The disparity of death
percentages in this statistic speaks eloquently for the obdurate nature of the
oppression of women in a nation that likes to think it holds the moral high
ground over the rest of the world in gender equality. These figures suggest
that women are increasingly using the new laws to leave abusive relationships
or seek other alternatives but men continue to see murder as one rational
answer to the problem of the "thing" misbehaving. We as a society
seem unable to acknowledge the concrete connection between our socioeconomic
norms and the criminal behavior they foster.
A survey conducted by the Office of
Policy and Research at the Department of Justice in New Zealand differs from
most other surveys in this area as it focuses solely on men’s views of and participation
in "domestic abuse." The researchers chose this term carefully, as
they wanted responses concerning psychological abuse as well as physical
violence. They view the intimate abuse of women as a continuum from simple
verbal put-downs to felony assault and murder. In the outcome of the survey,
they were able to examine the links between personal characteristics, attitudes
toward abuse, and abusive behavior (Leibrich, J., J. Paulin, R. Ransom
1995:15). This survey found that 25% of the men were willing to use some form
of violence in controlling the activities of their female partner (Leibrich et
al 1995). This finding sustains a theme recurs throughout the readings,
statistics and studies. In the words of the authors of this study, the solution
may ultimately lie in redefining what it means to be a man (Leibrich et al
1995). This concept will be considered impractical. It means altering the
cultural conditioning of millennia. However, as the men in the Leibrich study
indicated, lack of governmental interest and support may exacerbate the problem
of domestic abuse and gender discrimination. Our clinicians rightly refuse to
allow male batterers to blame anyone else for their actions. Regardless, the
norms of society reinforce human behavior for both good and evil. Thus, ongoing
attempts to improve the status of all under the law should tend to alter norms
for the better. Earlier examples in U.S. history where rights were granted to
those in positions of oppression include passage of the Thirteenth Amendment
delegitimizing slavery in 1865 and the Nineteenth Amendment in 1920 allowing
women’s suffrage. In the 1960’s we improved our human rights posture by passing
the Civil Rights Act of 1964, and the Voting Rights Act of 1965 to eliminate
invidious discrimination. These actions, though seriously overdue, were
nevertheless finally undertaken and have allowed us to begin to enjoy the
benefit of the intellect and energy previously obscured by prejudice. Social
science working in tandem with law has made some progress possible. This new
enfranchisement has not resulted in a major modification to the power dynamics
of gendered relationships in the United States, however, due to social
reproduction of hegemonic paradigms. Thus, in Anglo-American society, this may mean
no substantial change will occur in the degree and volume of domestic abuse and
violence that affects all classes—along with all of the other attendant ills of
the system—until our economic system and societal structure again shifts to
accommodate alternative perspectives. Perhaps the passage of an Equal Rights
Amendment will begin to change the perception of women in our culture, as a
change began in the perception of African Americans with the passage of civil
rights legislation. Nevertheless, with the declining sustainability of
alternative political ideologies to that of capitalism, it is ever more
important to rethink our dominant assumptions and design a system that works
for all people, not just a socioeconomic elite.
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Partner Homicide Year Men Killed Percentage of Base Year for Men Women Killed Percentage of Base Year for Women Yearly Difference in Percentage for Men Yearly Difference in Percentage for Women Base
Year 1976 1357 100.00% 1600 100.00% 1977 1294 95.36% 1437 89.81% 4.64% 10.19% 1978 1202 88.58% 1482 92.63% 6.78% -2.81% 1979 1262 93.00% 1506 94.13% -4.42% -1.50% 1980 1221 89.98% 1549 96.81% 3.02% -2.69% 1981 1278 94.18% 1572 98.25% -4.20% -1.44% 1982 1141 84.08% 1481 92.56% 10.10% 5.69% 1983 1113 82.02% 1462 91.38% 2.06% 1.19% 1984 989 72.88% 1442 90.13% 9.14% 1.25% 1985 957 70.52% 1546 96.63% 2.36% -6.50% 1986 985 72.59% 1586 99.13% -2.06% -2.50% 1987 933 68.75% 1494 93.38% 3.83% 5.75% 1988 854 62.93% 1582 98.88% 5.82% -5.50% 1989 903 66.54% 1415 88.44% -3.61% 10.44% 1990 859 63.30% 1501 93.81% 3.24% -5.38% 1991 779 57.41% 1518 94.88% 5.90% -1.06% 1992 722 53.21% 1455 90.94% 4.20% 3.94% 1993 708 52.17% 1581 98.81% 1.03% -7.88% 1994 692 50.99% 1405 87.81% 1.18% 11.00% 1995 547 40.31% 1321 82.56% 10.69% 5.25% 1996 515 37.95% 1324 82.75% 2.36% -0.19% 1997 430 31.69% 1174 73.38% 6.26% 9.38% Total
Difference 68.31% 26.63% Statistics from
http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/homicide/intimates.htm 11-7-99 Data analysis is the author’s.
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